ride ‘em, cowgirl! - a guide to woman-on-top
I want to talk today about a sexual position that is often misunderstood – woman-on-top. It’s a fantastic position! What makes woman-on-top so amazing for the guy is the view. He gets to just lay back and watch a sexy woman ride him. What makes it amazing for the woman is the control. Depth, speed, and angle – these are primarily up to here. Yet, I have had women tell me they are nervous about doing it, because they aren’t sure they are doing it right. Yet their man wants it, maybe even claims it’s one of his favorites. (It’s one of mine!) So let’s talk about the ways that you can ride your man. By the end of this blog article, you will understand the finer points of woman-on-top.
Let’s start with the three main movements that a woman can do while on top of her man.
- Pumping - The woman is on her knees and is leaning way forward, to the point that her chest is lightly touching his. Her torso slides back and forth – east and west. The pressure on the man is constant.
- Riding (Bouncing) – The woman could be on her knees or she could be flat-footed and squatting. She bounces up and down – north and south. It’s different from pumping in that his cock is forced to stick straight up, instead of perpendicular to his body. It’s also different from pumping in that there’s the added sensation of her body slamming back into his, rather than sliding up and down his body. The pressure of her weight is not constant. She’s suspended above him and then comes dropping back down upon him.
- Grinding – Here the woman is on her knees, but sitting upright. She’s not coming off his cock at all. There’s no bouncing. Instead, she’s rocking her pelvis back and forth. His cock is grinding inside her, but never varies much as to how far it’s in her.
Obviously, there are countless variations of these. For example, a woman can use a pumping motion in the reverse position. It’s intense! When she leans forward, she is bending her man’s cock downward. Or a woman can grind straight back and forth… orrrrrrr… in circular motions, like she’s trying to hoola-hoop while she’s fucking.
When you add in all the variations – front facing vs. rear facing, the man lying down vs. the man sitting up, in a bed vs. at the edge of the bed vs. in a chair – you get endless woman-on-top possibilities. Let me share some of my favorites.
He lies back while she mounts him. She is on her knees and upright. With her hands on his belly, she bounces. She uses her upper legs to raise herself up until his cock is almost out of her, then she slams herself back down onto him. This is just a fantastic position. It gives her total control. And he gets the beautiful sight of her bouncing. If she has ample boobage, they’ll bounce too. And it’s intimate. Eye contact is easy. When she gets tired of riding, she can switch to the much less strenuous grinding. Another option is for him to sit up and hug her while she bounces.
It’s identical to the classic version, except instead of kneeling, she puts her feet flat on the bed. She can grasp his hands or she can lean back slightly and put them on his knees. She bounces like that. Ladies, you better be in shape! That takes a lot of leg strength. Guys, you can help by letting her put her hands on your torso and, if you have long enough arms, reach down and put your hands under her thighs, helping her bounce. What guys really like about this is that it opens her up. He can watch his cock sliding in and out of her.
Same premise as classic, with her facing the other way. She can use his knees to hold onto. Or she can lean back slightly. It feels great for both, and it gives him a view of her ass that will drive him wild. She can ride or she can grind.
This is simply the pumping motion to the extreme. She lies down on top of him. Both have their legs together. Since her legs are together, it’s going to feel extremely tight for him. Then she slides up and down on his cock. Generally, the couple can make out while doing this position. Very intimate.
This is like the slide in reverse. He is lying down. She mounts him, facing away. Then she lays back until she is completely reclined on him. She sticks her legs down, outside his. Then it’s a slow pumping motion. He can reach around and play with her clitoris. He can kiss her neck and shoulders. Again, not a position meant to induce orgasm. It’s meant to create intimacy.
He’s sitting up, with his back pressed against the headboard, pillows behind him to make him comfortable. She’s flat footed, pressed against him. He has one arm around her back, and another hand cupped under her ass to help her as she grinds.
Yes, I named this after myself, because I don’t know what else to call it, and because I really love it. But that’s when she lays back and he sits up. Technically, she’s still on top. But she’s not riding him. She’s grinding a little bit. He might be pumping a little. But he can bend over and kiss her tummy or caress her breasts. Very sexy.
Here, the guy lays on his back with his legs off the bed, his feet on the floor, his knees wide. She then straddles him, with her feet on the floor. (Or one on the floor and one on the bed.) Doesn’t make a difference if she’s facing him or away from him. Because his legs are apart and her legs are outside his, she’s going to be wide open. So she can play with her exposed clit while she bounces.
This is sort of like Lazy Boy except that he’s sitting. And her legs could be inside of his. Basically, she sits on his lap. Unlike a lap dance, he’s actually inside her. From that position, she can bounce or grind.
It feels wonderful when you’re inside a woman and she turns around. In this position, she turns partially, so that she’s going sideways. This is a great grinding position. The natural way for a woman to grind is north and south. But when she’s sitting side saddle, it feels like she’s grinding him east and west. Pleasantly odd.
Reverse Cowgirl Anal
Want to blow his mind? Ride him cowgirl. Then spin around into the reverse position. Rise up, letting him fall out of you. Reposition so that he’s pressing on your anus. Drop down on it. (You’ll have wanted to pre-lube.) Now bounce. From that position, he can see his meat sliding in and out of your ass. He probably won’t last long. It’s also a great way for you to be in control if you have trouble with anal. You control depth and speed.
Well, there you have it. You have the three basic motions. And you have a bunch of examples of how you can use those basic motions. Realize, this is not an exhaustive list. It’s just the tip of a wonderful, erotic iceberg. Experiment with it. I know some women who can only cum this way, because they need to be able to be in control of pace. I know some guys who love woman-on-top because it’s easy for them to cum. I know other guys who love it for the exact opposite reason - it’s easy for them to hold out. Set your goals. Experiment. Have fun.
Do you have a better position in mind? Tell me what it is.
Oh, one more thing. There is a MIND-BLOWING woman-on-top position. It’s called the Flying Monkey. Both the man and woman can cum from it. It’s too hard to explain. I’d just have to show you. ;)
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